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    Today I have been compelled with an urge to leave Glasgow for, um, utopia? While half doing housework and half doing nothing earlier today, I heard Germaine Greer on Any Questions mention the proposed smoking ban in the UK. Her point was that although the population is aware of the dangers of smoking, and there are health warnings on tobacco products, the people we're most likely to see lighting up with glee are 13 year olds, and that that infantile mentality often persists, despite adequate intelligence. We shouldn't need legislation to prevent harming ourselves or others. I can't see a way round it.

    Anyway, what was bothering me today was a series of events that highlight that infantile mentality.
1: I went to the cinema (to see Bad Santa), and came out in a foul mood. I couldn't even tell you if I enjoyed the movie as I was unable to hear most of it for the inane and conastant chatter of a group of teenage girls behind me. When I shushed them (just once) I was greeted with a barrage of abuse. I should have got up, left, complained, but I actually wanted to see the film.
2: Walking down the hill to the bus stop I saw two men, apparently friends (I surmised this from the women who appeared to be with them) screaming at each other and then one headbutted the other. This was at about 5pm.
3: On the bus, a crowd of young adults swearing loudly with no regard for the other passengers on the bus, smoking (which is allegedly banned on public transport), became rather boisterous and started shouting some football chant. When the bus driver, perfectly politely, asked them to calm down he was greeted with a torrent of sectarian abuse.

    On all three of these occasions, I heard passers by, other cinema goers and those on the bus to say that the perpetrators were stupid, didn't have two brain cells to rub together etc., but like Ms Greer I don't believe that's necessarily the case. I don't pretend to understand why people behave antisocially, rudely or violently. It can't just be selfishness can it?

Posted on Saturday, November 20, 2004 at 07:28PM by Registered Commentersisterphonetica in | Comments4 Comments

Reader Comments (4)

Yep, it's selfishness, combined with the absolute certainty that they will not be punished.
November 22, 2004 | Unregistered CommenterSquander Two
One day a real rain.. etc.

You know the rest.

I have despair filled days like that in Glasgow as well. Somedays I wonder if a nuclear accident at Faslane would be a good thing for the West of Scotland overall.

But other days it's not so bad. In fact, it can be rather enjoyable. Most people are pretty reasonable when they're on their own. It's when there's a big enough group of them that a you can get an antisocial critical mass. Unfortunately the denser the individual, the less of them required for an antisocial critical mass.
November 22, 2004 | Unregistered Commenterc0NZ
sister!

you can't move yet, im moving back to Glasgow armed with my London "don't push me" elbows...

comfort yourself with the fact that you don't live in London...

my mum has moved to Westport in Ireland and she has been telling me lots of stories about cars stopping in the street to let her cross the road, women in shops offering to carry her goods back to the house for her, and about a local telling of the crime in the area "well, a window was smashed recently by a tourist"...the place sounds like a "leave your doors unlocked" 1950's village....

heaven or hell? I can't decide...
November 24, 2004 | Unregistered Commenterbrat
SisterP, I have had that cinematic experience so many times. You sit in the cinema spending most of the film trying to think of a way of shutting them up (short of actual beheading) that they will not be able to respond to. It kind of spoils the viewing experience. We sat through the whole of Alfie (look, I know, it was shit) with these knicker wetters behind us making negative assessments of every woman he shagged.
November 25, 2004 | Unregistered CommenterPassiflora

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